Forced back into a marriage?

You may not like my answer, but you owe it to your child and his to make this work if you can. Leave your family out of it. It's not their marriage. You should go to counseling with him. If you still want a divorce, then you have your answer, but it's not just you and him in this situation - it's your kids. I am just saying, I don't believe divorce should ever be an option unless the couple goes through counseling to see if it can be saved.